This is not a rant to bash anyone, or to single individuals out for public humility. I myself am just as guilty for committing the offenses forthcoming.
You’re sitting there listening to the professor drone on and on about something as dry as the toast you made two days ago; when that familiar buzz of an incoming text message captures your attention. One quick reply you think, as you coolly maneuver the phone so as to not cause suspicion. The next thing you know class is over and you are still pounding away in a heated debate as to whether gin or vodka makes a better martini. Better yet; have you ever gone to dinner with friends and there was just that one person whom just seamed to feel that what was going on at that moment wasn’t nearly as important as the conversation that they are having via blackberry messaging? And finally, you’re on a date with the person of your dreams and s/he sits down with an arsenal of electronic devices in anticipation of the next big thing.
Now you may laugh but, unless you are still using a rotary dial phone or, sending smoke signals you most likely have some type of mobile communication device. The question that arises is, as technology advances keeping us in touch with the world, how are we to utilize it and still convey a level of respect toward others? Technology develops so quickly “that oftentimes…the social rules take a while to get codified,” says Jim Louderback, editor of Ziff Davis Internet and organizer of DigitalLife…In the absence of an official manual Louderback pleads for common sense Chilton, Susan (2006,09,26). Tactless texting lapse of manners. The Record, Retrieved 09 26, 2006, from http://www.therecord.com/pdfs/2006Sep26/C01.PDF
It is important for each of us to recognize that whatever activity that we are involved with at that moment, it is where our entire focus should be. No matter how drab or mundane you may feel it is; it truly is a matter of respect that is required of you to convey. Unless you are expecting urgent news or you’re an on call professional, text-messaging in front of company is not proper behavior, said Jacqueline Whitmore, author of Business Class: Etiquette Essentials for Success at Work. “It is an indicator that you’re not mentally present,” Whitmore said. (Chilton, 2006).
So the next time you seem to feel the need to debate as to which has a greater nutritional value; McDonalds or Burger King? Put yourself in the position of the professor, and consider the effort that was put into the lecture that is really for your benefit (F.Y.I. they already know the information). Or, in the case of that hot date, look into their eyes and really listen to them you never know.Technology is continuously being advanced to make our lives easier; so take advantage it. Let that call go to voicemail, turn the ringer COMPLETELY off so that the hum of an incoming message will not distract you, and give the person talking to you the undivided attention that they deserve.